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15 Kas How to Start a Conversation on Tinder (Without Being Creepy)

You saw, you swiped, you matched. Now you're staring at a blinking cursor wondering what you can possibly say to stand out from the dozens-or hundreds-of dudes trying to seal the deal.

You can find a lot of online dating gurus who sell courses that are “guaranteed” to get you responses from your Tinder messages. But the truth is the best Tinder openers don't fit into a formula. You have to consider the context, the other person's profile, and your own intentions.

So, rather than giving you a long list of pickup lines, we're going to teach you the principles of starting a conversation on Tinder (which aren't that different from starting a conversation in real life).

Whether you're looking for a soulmate or a hookup, you'll learn how to craft a convo that makes you stand out from the crowd. Grab your notebook-Tinder class for dudes is in session.

Prime Your Profile for Conversation

Before you send any messages, take a step back and review your Tinder profile. No matter how talented of a wordsmith you are, a lackluster profile will crush your chances of having a good conversation.

First impressions are quite literally everything on dating apps, so make sure you put your best foot (or face, rather) forward. Here are some quick tips: